The Main Ceremony: Umabo

The Umabo is the traditional wedding ceremony held at the groom's homestead, signifying the bride's official welcome into his family and lineage. It is a vibrant celebration rich with symbolic acts, traditional attire, and communal festivities.

Key Rituals and Symbolism

• Ancestral Introduction: The bride leaves her home early in the morning, covered by a blanket, and is led by her father. Upon arriving at the groom's home, she walks around the outside of the house to be introduced to his family's ancestors before entering.
• Animal Sacrifice: The slaughtering of a bull or cow is a central element, symbolizing the welcoming of the bride and the union of the two families' ancestors. The bride places money on the cow's stomach to show her acceptance into the new family.
• Gift-Giving (Ukwaba): The bride presents her in-laws with gifts, most notably blankets, as a sign of respect and to formalize her new relationships within the family. Each family member who receives a gift performs a joyful dance in appreciation.
• Traditional Attire: The bride wears elaborate traditional attire, which can include an isidwaba (leather skirt), isicwaya (animal skin to cover her chest), and an inkehli or isicholo (a hat signifying her married status). She also carries a small knife to symbolize her virginity.